upon things with a wary eye is not only smart, but necessary to self
preservation. Be mindful however that
you are not reading into the actions of others intentions that they never
There is a fine line between being wary and being pessimistic. If you find yourself saying things like "they are just" or "just saying," especially in public forums, you have stepped over the line from caution to spreading negative energies and in the process really hurting yourself. Give people the benefit of the doubt and remember it is not up to you to "call them out."
Karma takes care of that for you so you can live your life at peace, filled with joy and beauty.