While you may think an old score needs to be set right, remember that things will actually be settled without your prompting or influence and it will be done better than you could have imagined.  While the statement “Vengeance is mine sayeth the lord” really doesn’t bring yo … read more

When you feel spiteful, stop and consider the possible fruits of this emotion. When you express bitter anger, are there ever any benefits? Yes, you may feel a temporary release, but did you permanently close a door with your outburst?  Holding these feelings in and not expressing … read more

When you plot vengeance, you perpetuate the original assault. You cannot heal verbal or physical violence with bitterness. Cruelty begets more cruelty in an endless cycle of nastiness. When you are tempted to vindictively comment or plot to undermine another, it time to heed Jesus an … read more

When you feel bitter, look into your own heart and see if you find your own hurt, envy or jealousy. Your emotions may be triggered because crave what you do not have. Do you desire supportive friends, a meaningful job, and peace of heart? Or, do you rationalize unkind thoughts, becau … read more

You may be feeling like doing something mean that in the end, through karma will bring far more of the same down upon you and those you love.  Certain insecurities can compel you to act, where you feel like you have no control to do otherwise. But you do have a choice and self … read more

Looking upon things with a wary eye is not only smart, but necessary to self preservation. Be mindful however that you are not reading into the actions of others intentions that they never had.  There is a fine line between being wary and being pessimistic. If you find y … read more

When you see everything around you as a potential threat to your status or security, being confrontational becomes a habit. If personal self esteem depends on how you stack up against others you may find yourself in a constant state of competition, where you constantly judge others. … read more